Frequently Asked Questions

Why try speed dating?

Are you bored of dating apps - with choice overload, ghosting, catphishes, screen consumption? We create these events to give you a break from all that and the digital world! Nothing beats authenticity and meeting in person.

I am feeling nervous but I really want to meet someone...

We understand that most people will be feeling somewhat nervous before attending this event, and we encourage you to step outside of your comfort zone and try it anyway. The fear is always bigger in our minds than the reality! Overcoming the nerves and attending brings a rewarding feeling and many benefits; like gaining confidence, and social skills, as well as the prospect of meeting someone for you. We endeavour to help people feel as comfortable as possible with a warm welcome. Plus refreshing bar drinks are always available for those needing that bit of dutch courage.

How many dates do you get, and how does Speed Dating work?

Depending on the venue size and attendance on the night, we aim for a minimum of 8 mini dates per person, and a maximum of 15. Each one is around 5 minutes long. At the sound of the ringing bell gentlemen switch seats to the next table with a lady sat at each one. Chat away and see if there's a connection. As you date each person, fill out your matchcard and indicate whether you'd like to see them again, along with any handy notes. The completed matchcard is given to the host at the end, and you will receive your match results the next day. 

What Age group should I attend?

This decision is left to your own discernment, and can vary at each event. 

Example a 30 plus speed dating usually has a mix of singles in their 30s and 40s with a minority of early 50s (unless we have capped the age range e.g; 35 to 55)

We recommend not to get too hung up over the ages and focus more on connection, everyone is different. If you’re unsure ask us, or try different age groups!

This is a guide and not strict. It depends on how you feel about where you fit in.

 

 

Are there many success stories?

Yes, yes, yes! We are thrilled to share, we hear about these occasionally. Long term loving relationships have formed, and our first couple to get married is this year 2026!  People make new friends all the time and attending our singles events has changed their lives!

Do I have to be from Cornwall to attend?

All are welcome to attend who are living permanently in Cornwall. Our new location in Saltash also welcomes those in Plymouth, just over the bridge.

What shall we talk about on each date?

Anything you wish, and we encourage you to be your authentic self, honest and open! As long as it's mutual topics and appropriate! Most people want to know the area you live, your job, your hobbies and interests, and find that that is enough to get the ball rolling until time is up. (The time does go really fast so make the most of it). We also provide some fun casual conversation starters on the tables, for other ideas, should you need them.

Is five minutes too long/too short to speed date?

We believe five minutes is long enough to indicate whether you are interested or not. 

We recommend if you are unsure and need more time, chatting to that person during breaks or tick 'yes' on your matchcard anyway. If it's mutual, get to know eachother outside of speed dating and see how it goes. 

Ironically five minutes might seem too long if you're not interested during the speed date. On the plus side you never know what can come of it, learning something new, making a friend or perhaps networking, you never know.  

 

What is your cancellation policy?

If for any reason you need to cancel your booking, please inform us immediately. Our speed dating night's rely on an even number of male/female attendees and the seating to be at full capacity in order to give everyone the maximum opportunity to find a match. Full refunds are given with ten or more days notice before the event date (minus a £2.50 admin fee).  Tickets are non-exchangeable or refundable with less than ten days notice given to us by the attendee.

FEEDBACK & REVIEWS

"Hello there Rebecca,

Thank you so much for your email and details.

It was such a great evening, all the chats I had were good fun, the chaps all very nice. It was a wonderful way to socialise with both the ladies and gents there, really boosting my confidence with meeting new chaps.

Thanks to you and your lovely organisation of the event, your welcoming manner and a lovely venue, I think you made such a lovely atmosphere for us to enjoy a wonderful evening 😊 

Thanks again,

Best Wishes"

(Speed dating participant)

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"Thank you Rebecca, it was a good evening and a really good environment. Very welcoming and nice. I'm more than happy with the outcome, Thank you so much"

(Speed dating participant)

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"Thank you, Rebecca

It's very exciting to get the results and makes it a bit more real! I'm pleased though. I had a great time and am recommending it to people.

Time to be vulnerable and see what happens, I guess. 

Cheers for now,"

(Speed dating participant)

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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ a year ago - Steven

I can't speak highly enough of Rebecca and her speed dating events. I was nervous before going to my first event but Rebecca helped calm the nerves and helped with hints and tips of what to expect for my first session. Each session is well organised, very well ran and everyone has a great time. I'd recommend these events to all single people!

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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 9 months ago - Luke

What a breath of fresh air this service is. Real people. Real conversations. None of the boring swiping, ghosting and endless chat that leads nowhere like all the dating apps.

Rebecca is an amazing host and the sessions she puts together are brilliant. I've had a chance to meet some awesome people and I would highly recommend attending one or more of these events. I'm looking forward to the 80s disco on the 5th December in Truro.

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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ a year ago - Freya

Thank you so much for hosting it! It was a really nice evening!

It was really lovely to talk to people face to face, a lot nicer than on dating apps, and they were really kind- I wish everyone all the very best! 😊

Rebecca the host was so kind and welcoming too and made it a lot less scary so thank you!

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Our Story 

Cornwall Dating Events was created from lived experience - from the boredom of dating apps, and swiping for hours only to find it to become a complete waste of time and energy. Curious about speed dating and seeing that events were non-existent in Cornwall at the time, the determination to bring it to Cornwall was born, along with the desire to bring single people together in real life, away from the digital world.

After years of work experience in hospitality, events, administration, customer care and personal dating experiences - it has been a natural alignment to  host these dating events. Bringing people together, is an absolute joy and pleasure, and so rewarding, especially when we hear back that couples are formed and fall in love from meeting at speed dating or one of our singles parties. 

We are incredibly grateful to our friends, family, venue managers, bar staff, and our wonderful attendees for your amazing support throughout this journey, long may it continue..... ❤️